Why does your opinon matter?

So my biggest issue for me is that I feel I have to have validation from others. And this has been a issue for me for my entire life; because I feel that I'm not as I should be from a look perspective. So I have decided to live in the now and own my shit. Love me for me. So that's what I am going to do. Now the question is , what does that look like. Well for me I have just accepted that my life is only lived once. Why would you continue to allow others to dictate how you live it. Don't know if its just me ( and it could be), but this thing called your 30s' raise a lot of questions. So lets do a self improvement challenge. For this week, we will not look for answers in others, we will not second guess our choices, we will put US first and make choices or decision with us in mind. And that's just my picks , pick what you want to work on and if you want share how its going or pm me you thoughts on this. Wow that felt good to say. Hope your week is off to a good start. Be easy!

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