And it started like this....

So in life , we all have that moment where we question who we are; or at least I did. I really thought I had it all figured out, boy I have been wrong. So at 31 , I say to myself what is next for me. Well this is it. So my husband sent a text that I will share below . I know it came from a place of love, he said I needed friends. Now before I go any further , I have friends , I don't go out or call a bunch so I lack that social part of it . I started to think about how many other women, like me, are so busy being in more than one role , that they forget to have their own time to be in their essence. Yes I said essence which by definition is our natural qualities that define who or what we are. So yes I am a mom, a wife, a granddaughter, a daughter( check out this order, it will make sense later.), and a career woman. Notice, I didn't describe anything about me. That's because I realized my husband had a point, I lost ME!

Well I have decided , its time to rediscover who I am today, now, in the present. Hopefully someone else has been where I am going and has some insight but for those of us who have yet to embark on such a journey, I will be the test subject for you all.

My husband is a character and he has no filter. I know however when he is being honest with me and its from a loving place. Real talk. this was some funny stuff.

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